Why is Backbiting, Complaining & Blaming forbidden.
Normal conscious person face problems in at
least one of the two ways.
1. Denial:
Some people deny that their problems exist in the first place. And because they deny reality, they must constantly delude or distract themselves from reality. This may make them feel good in the short term, but it leads to a life of insecurity, neuroticism, and emotional repression.
2. Victim Mentality:
Some choose to believe that there is nothing they can do to solve their problems, even when they in fact could. Victims seek to blame others for their problems or blame outside circumstances. This may make them feel better in the short term, but it leads to a life of anger, helplessness, and despair.
People deny and blame others for their problems for the simple reason that it’s easy and feels good, while solving problems is hard and often feels bad. Forms of blame and denial give us a quick high. They are a way to temporarily escape our problems, and that escape can provide us a quick rush that makes us feel better.
Denial and blame are easiest but disliked way of keeping away oneself of the reality and have guts to confront it. Solution of problems is what makes one strong and happy, the methods of constant happiness is the constant solution of problems, Backbiting, denial & complaining is the way which keep an ignorant ignorant, a fooled fool, a broken broke, a rejected reject, an unsuccessful failed. It’s way cowards use for escape from reality. It cure them for short term but in longer term a huge discomfort maybe in front of them waiting there.
Ignorance is not the way of winning streak but a streak of failure upon failures. A person can’t be called an educated one if he has not reached up to that limit where he don’t backbite, blame or complain for his/her own ignorance.
As it is said: Change start from oneself, If you changed yourself you have changed something in the world and have left your mark on it, be proud of it.
1. Denial:
Some people deny that their problems exist in the first place. And because they deny reality, they must constantly delude or distract themselves from reality. This may make them feel good in the short term, but it leads to a life of insecurity, neuroticism, and emotional repression.
2. Victim Mentality:
Some choose to believe that there is nothing they can do to solve their problems, even when they in fact could. Victims seek to blame others for their problems or blame outside circumstances. This may make them feel better in the short term, but it leads to a life of anger, helplessness, and despair.
People deny and blame others for their problems for the simple reason that it’s easy and feels good, while solving problems is hard and often feels bad. Forms of blame and denial give us a quick high. They are a way to temporarily escape our problems, and that escape can provide us a quick rush that makes us feel better.
Denial and blame are easiest but disliked way of keeping away oneself of the reality and have guts to confront it. Solution of problems is what makes one strong and happy, the methods of constant happiness is the constant solution of problems, Backbiting, denial & complaining is the way which keep an ignorant ignorant, a fooled fool, a broken broke, a rejected reject, an unsuccessful failed. It’s way cowards use for escape from reality. It cure them for short term but in longer term a huge discomfort maybe in front of them waiting there.
Ignorance is not the way of winning streak but a streak of failure upon failures. A person can’t be called an educated one if he has not reached up to that limit where he don’t backbite, blame or complain for his/her own ignorance.
As it is said: Change start from oneself, If you changed yourself you have changed something in the world and have left your mark on it, be proud of it.
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